I had never had a problem with my husband talking with his ex wife because it wasnt but every couple months or so and the emails were never disrespectful.  Once she found out he was remarried and had a newborn baby, it went downhill.  she wrote him saying how hurt she was, etc.  I found an email from my husband to his ex wife saying that she should have said she didn't want the divorce and that the was pissed because they should still be married.  He also wrote that he would have never got remarried if it wasn't for our baby, that he never wanted kids but he couldn't help what happened, along with many other hurtful things.  She told him she wasn't over him and was trying to think of ways to tell him she wanted him back.  She sent him another email saying that he shouldn't have gotten married for the baby and that if he ever left me to let her know immediately.  She emails or text at least every 2 days.  I confronted him and he said he lied to her to make her feel better, I think he's full of crap and feel very disrespected.  the ex wife thinks he doesn't love me and is only with me for the baby and contacts him trying to hold onto what she can of my husband.  He says I shouldn't be threatened by her.  About 2 weeks ago, he told me that he would write her an email telling her the truth about me and setting her straight, he never wrote it.  I told him tonight I don't want him talking to her anymore, I wish she would get a boyfriend and leave my husband alone.  He got very angry and defensive and now we are fighting.  He has turned this around on me and is trying to say I cheated on him in the beginning of our relationship, trying to get the focus off him.  I'm so hurt.  What should I do?  Am I wrong for wanting her out of our lives?  They have no children together.