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« on: September 01, 2009, 12:35:05 AM »

OK, so I was just curious. These days, people only seem to be interested in dating...and that's it. There's no next step, except maybe moving in and possibly having kids. Anyway, it's just something that always bothered me. I personally believe marriage is a sacred act not just between two people, but also in the eyes of God.

Do you agree with me?
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« Reply #1 on: September 02, 2009, 01:22:12 PM »

Yes I have a friend from the UK who sees no need for marriage at all. Thinks it just legally complicates matters. I know a lot of guys who are afraid of legal marriage because of how men typically get run through it with divorce, not getting to see their children as much as the mother, having to pay alamony even when/if she makes more money. At least, that's what they've claimed.

Singles have seen divorce, how children are affected, how mean people are to each other in divorce and just don't want divorce to be an option to the point that they don't even get married.
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« Reply #2 on: September 29, 2009, 06:08:42 PM »

Half of all couples who marry in the USA have first lived together. Some studies indicate that if a cohabitant couple goes on to marriage, their divorce rate may be as high as 80%. In short, marriage binds people together in many ways, not just legally.

Think of it this way; there is a difference in the mindset of renters and the mindset of buyers.
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« Reply #3 on: October 23, 2009, 07:31:15 AM »

andrewmoquin, I totally agree with you that marriage is sacred! I think that hollywood has kindof help set the standard that you don't marry. You date, move in together and then have kids...or date, have kids then move in together. Our society is so caught up with what the "celebrities" are doing that they follow it. Look at Brad and Angelina. Are they married? But they have all these kids together, granted most are adopted but they've never taken the step to make their relationship official by marriage. Not just them but there are so many examples out there! And if they are married, then divorce is looked at as no big deal. If you're not happy then don't work it out, just get a divorce and then move in with your current co-star on your next movie! Sooooo frustrating!

It makes me nervous thinking about how my kids will look at marriage once they get to that stage of life. Will our world be so mixed up that marriage will be one of those acts that's looked at as weird, or "old timey?"
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« Reply #4 on: October 24, 2009, 10:27:36 PM »

Well with TV shows like:

Bridezillas
Til Death
Platinum Weddings
Whose Wedding Is It Anyway
Iron Brides
Rules of Engagement
Engaged and Underaged
Wedding SOS
Buff Brides
Bulging Brides
I Propose
Married Away
My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding
My Big Redneck Wedding
Rich Bride Poor Bride
Rock the Reception
Say Yes to the Dress
The Real Wedding Crashers
and on and on..

Some couples are obviously still getting married :) but for sure it's not like it used to be and not always for the same reason as it used to be either. 


The stat I find most intriguing on this subject:

The current total population of women in the United States ages 15-64 years old is 103 million, and 53 million eligible voters in this country are unmarried women.

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« Reply #5 on: March 19, 2010, 07:47:52 AM »

In past People marry for many reasons, most often including one or more of the following: legal, social, emotional, economical, spiritual, and religious.There are many Beliefs and Superstitions surrounding the wedding.But according to me You don't marry someone you can live with, you marry the person who you cannot live without.
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« Reply #6 on: July 21, 2010, 03:26:15 PM »

I am engaged and I can't wait to get married and be a married woman. I think it is a shame that "todays modern woman" believes it is not important to be married.

I can't wait for my wedding, I am saving up like mad. I want a garden wedding but it is hard to find somewhere in the UK - if anyone has any ideas please let me know!

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