My husband and inlaws make my life miserable

[Priya]

I feel cry when I start to write this story. I didnt see any happy moments in my marriage life. I have been marriage for 2 yrs. Now my husband hates me a lot because of lot of problems. When I was newly married, I loved him so much. My husband also loved me so much. I entered into this family. My sister in law and mother in law started their abnormal behaviour. MIL was always threatening my parents and asking more jewells, money. My hero didnt support me at all. He noticed and enjoyed his mothers speaking. And SIL didnt allow to sit and go with him. He never ask anything. He felt scary to ask anything to mom and sister. Finally MIL bahaved with my husband in a abnormal way. She lied on the bed to pulling my husband and etc., I dont know how to say it. And standed without dress in front of my husband and etc., lot of abnormal behaviour. Because of this we had lot of arguments. I told to my husband that send your mom to your country, let her be with her mother and sister and we will support her from here. But never accept he wants to keep with him. She also wants to be with his son. In this situation, because of many arguments spoiled the love in our marriage life. Still  I love my husband but he doesnt love me. My husband told to me that "If you love my mum and sister in this situation and be with them, then only I will love you". How can I be with them. Now I am becoming mental. I control everything in my heart and become mad. I feel very distress. I dont know what can I do. Please tell any suggestion and advice. Hope you all understand my English.

[admin]

Priya, I'm sorry for the difficulty you're having. You might want to take a look at this article on communicating with your husband: http://www.marriagehelper.com/communication_in_marriage.php

It really sounds like they're not respecting you or the marriage. And that there could be some more serious problems.