need help.

[lilysulivans]

We have been married for 6 and half years and have a 3 old daughter. My husband suddenly behaved like a stranger then he asked for separation. At the time he asked for the separation he said he was unhappy with our marriage and I wasn't the right person for him. He said he was thinking of some other woman. Then he moved to the hotel room for 3 weeks then asked for the divorce. He said he didn't have a girlfriend and wasn't dating. But he said in front of the mediator that he was dating and I know he had the affair with that woman right in his rental apartment when he took care of my daughter there. He is such a great liar. We are working on the divorce but I spent almost a year to wonder why he left until New year night he told me about an other woman involved. But he still said it wasn't the reason she he left me. And now he keep lying to me and try to take my daughter away from me. What should I do. Please help.

[MaryAnn]

I've been there and went through what you are going through and I know it's not fun.  it makes you feel degraded and helpless.   Most courts won't take a child away from a mother unless she's totally unfit.  So keep yourself from doing anything stupid and you shouldn't have anything to worry about.  He's not confessing that the other woman is the problem as he'd rather put the blame on you.  Chances are you didn't do anything wrong but he doesn't want to own up to what he has done.  Keep your chin up, rely on God to be there for you.  Move on without him.  You can still pray that God will bring him back and you can still have a great marriage.  If that doesn't happen then just mark it up to experience and try to lean on God for your understanding.  If you have a pastor talk to him as he will know how to counsel you in such matter.