My husband may be cheating or is thinking about cheating. I found that he has a profile on ashleymadison.com which is a dating site for married people to find affairs.

What should i do? I don't see much activity on there yet. He's gotten messages from girls but I don't see him sending any out. It looks like it's a recent account. Maybe he could have just been curious about the site? But he entered his actual information like birthday, weight, height.

Should I wait to see if something does happen on there or confront him about it now? We have only been married a few months. He used to be sort of a play boy in his younger years (well has been with many women, couple one night stands, but says he's never cheated). People have said he's changed a lot since he's met me. We have been together for 3 years before we got married and I thought he's the most honest guy.  Maybe I am wrong and have failed. What should I do? :(

Talk to him about it.  Pick a time that he seems open to a discussion.  Don't pick afterwork or a saturday afternoon when he is in relax mode.  Pick your time carefully and be direct and open

I'm sorry to hear about your discovery.  If he's on there it's just a matter of time before he starts talking to people.  I too found my husband on several dating sites.  He had forgotten to log off his email and when I got on the computer it was staring me in the face.  He however had been doing it for over a year and was talking to the women.  I did confront him and after much probing and refusing to believe his first stories he did finally admit to it.  I have never fully believed his story ad think more happened than he has admitted to.  He did immediately cancel his profiles and promised to never do it again but I have foun him looking again which he swears was just looking.

I love my husband and want this to work but if I had it to do again I would've made a fake profile and approached him to see what he was really up to.  I think the unknown and no way to know for sure has made trusting him again very difficult and here 2 years later I still wonder from time to time if he's being truly honest with me or out looking still.  Do what you feel is best for you but either way you need to confront him.  He needs to know that you know and that it's not ok.  Best of luck.