Marriage and sex are interwoven. Problem in one area invariably influence the other area. Infact, it enhances communication in marriage, yet, it is the least topic discussed by couples or preached about in the open.

The obvious truth about marriage is that, it is done in the flesh and not in the spirit. So also is sex. Yet many people believe that, sex and sex-related problems are topics for the physician to discuss but not issues for counsellors.

This is narrow view about the whole problem of marriage and sex. And, periodically, issues of sex often arise in counselling sessions and, definitely, they cannot be ignored. Hence, it is important to help couples deal with sexual problems in their marriages

Keeping the sexual spark alive in a marriage or in a long-term relationship is easier said than done. However, couples who take time to cultivate and maintain healthy and satisfying sexual relations tend to be more connected with each other and do not suffer from depression, heart problems and other health maladies.

You have "sex" with your eyes, ears, nose, and mouth as well as your body. So, it is a good idea to keep your apperance as your spouse likes.

It's easy to get comfortable in marriage and "let yourself go," but if that's not ok with your spouse then your sex life will suffer because of it. Just make a conscience effort to take care of yourself and periodically ask your spouse if he/she still finds you attractive, or if they still like your hairstyle, ect.

Just my opinion...

Joanna

be blessed for that hotzy....