My husband and I are both in the military. He has been in for 4 years and I recently (January) just got to my first base so it's my first time away from home. Well long story short we got married March 11th and he got a surprise tasking to deploy overseas to leave on March 30th. My unit here has been a nightmare, I have no support system, I feel like I have nothing here. So I have 3, what the call, adjustment depression tickers. New unit/first base, Newly wed, and dealing with a deployment on top of it. So I feel really alone here, but I try so hard not to put all of my stresses on my husband because his job is stressful enough, but I have no one else to talk to. Lately we've been fighting a lot, mostly me adding fuel because I feel like he doesn't love me like he used to. I know it sounds selfish, but I really do try my best to be as selfless as possible with him because I only want him happy. I don't know what to do. Ive said numerous times I can't do this anymore. I've even threatened my life even though I know I couldnt and wouldnt ever hurt myself, I just want feel he cares. How do I make him care? How do I show him better that I respect him more than he thinks? I need advice before my marriage gets worse. Is this just normal newly we'd problems? Any advice will help so much. thank you.