Hi
I'm the cheated Wife. My Ex found his true love at work and they both conspired to Divorce their spouses. She has a kid and I've a little boy as well.

My ex was not sure in the beginning but she pressured him to get the divorce first and she would file as well once his was complete. In the mean time her ex filed for Divorce which she never thought would happen. She is really determined and stubburn. I had begged her many times to let my Ex go but everytime she said "she doesn't have a gun on his head" and they both are entitled for their happiness.

My Ex alwayas wanted an aggressive, passionate woman like her but married me. He says he felt pitty for me since I was a widow, he cared for me but never loved me and this girl is giving him the emotional, physical attnetion he lacked in our marriage.

We're married for 9 years and the affair started almost three years ago.  our Divorce ended this Jan. During this time he was very Fickle minded. Came back to reconcile in Jan. but left in a week and came again in May and then went back to her. In this whole process I got pregnant but he asked me to abort the child. He also mentioned his girlfriend is OK with taking care of both the kids if I decided to keep the baby. He loves that about her that how cooperative and forgiving and logical she is.  It was a tough decision for me but I went ahead and terminated the pregnancy.

He said he was confused for last two years and he felt guilty for me and missed his son thats why he came back but now he could see clearly that how much he loves this person. He calls it Magical love. My question to everyone is, is it truly real love, am I an obstacle in their path of happiness?? They're planning to get married, do you think its gonna last? Just need a Closure

If you need some honest to god advice, I think you should let him go for good.  My mother went through this for years with my father.  Same thing battling it out for years.  He would come back when the other woman and him where fighting or on "hiatus".  It ruined my mother.  I would hate to see that happen to you.  She won't date because she's afraid of redoing the same scenerio over again.  It's really upsetting.  She got caught in his foolishness and I believe she is paying the price for it more than my dad.  Don't go back and forth.  It was mentally draining for my mom.  I know she regrets it everyday.  She could have a great man by now, because she is a great lady.  Please don't degrade yourself like that.  No one deserves that.  Good luck.