butterfly
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« on: January 27, 2012, 04:28:44 AM » |
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iv been married only for 3 months now, we have been together for aboutt 6 years. but just after 5 days from getting married, im facing the worst time of my life. he lost his job after 10 days of our marriage, and somehow he blames me for that, without any solid base.
he was working in a event firm , so he has totaly different schedule of work, he sleeps all day and works all night, says he can concentrate at work at night, but i was facing huge problem with him time management. we never got out of house within this three months, freind's wedding or so. if i ever say anything to him, he gets angry and says i push him and he cant work this way.
also, he really loves me, does really sweet sweet things for me, but never take care of me, never bother if im hurt or sick. right now we had a fight about his working area, and he got out of home and saying he will never come back. we both love each other so madly, but we cant find any way out of a healthy married life.
also, because of his timing, we are facing sex life difficulties. he seems to get turned on when he is ready to get to bed which iss early in the morning, and i have to go to work just after 3 hours from then. but i never reject him.
i dont know what to do and how to resolve these matters. i love him like crazy, he also loves me, but our different ways of lifestyle is runing our relationship and marriage. he was unemployed for 3 months and i managed all the financial expenses, now he is working with some small projects but when i say he should get somethig stable not these temporary projects he gets angry and furious.please help me, im falling apart. i cant find any way to work this thing, but i desparately want to. :(
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