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butterfly
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« on: January 27, 2012, 04:28:44 AM »

iv been married only for 3 months now, we have been together for aboutt 6 years. but just after 5 days from getting married, im facing the worst time of my life. he lost his job after 10 days of our marriage, and somehow he blames me for that, without any solid base.

he was working in a event firm , so he has totaly different schedule of work, he sleeps all day and works all night, says he can concentrate at work at night, but i was facing huge problem with him time management. we never got out of house within this three months, freind's wedding or so. if i ever say anything to him, he gets angry and says i push him and he cant work this way.

also, he really loves me, does really sweet sweet things for me, but never take care of me, never bother if im hurt or sick. right now we had a fight about his working area, and he got out of home and saying he will never come back. we both love each other so madly, but we cant  find any way out of a healthy married life.

also, because of his timing, we are facing sex life difficulties. he seems to get turned on when he is ready to get to bed which iss early in the morning, and i have to go to work just after 3 hours from then. but i never reject him.

i dont know what to do and how to resolve these matters. i love him like crazy, he also loves me, but our different ways of lifestyle is runing our relationship and marriage. he was unemployed for 3 months and i managed all the financial expenses, now he is working with some small projects but when i say he should get somethig stable not these temporary projects he gets angry and furious.please help me, im falling apart. i cant find any way to work this thing, but i desparately want to. :(
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« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2012, 01:35:58 AM »

butterfly

Having a relationship for six years and still being crazy about each other is a wonderful thing!  I wonder if you are being entirely truthful about how much the two of you love each other.  If he loved you as much as you think he does, there would be a greater chance that he would want to take care of you when you are sick or hurt.  Some people are wired differently and don't see things the same way, but remember that it is easy to do the small things and be sweet, but it is really hard to be there to care for you when you are sick.

I'm not sure I could understand what you meant, but I believe that you were saying that he has left you?  Did he ever come back?  Were you able to resolve the problems you were having?

More detailed information would really help us understand your situation better and offer advice.
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