hi everyone im new to this site and i need some advice:  first off i wanna say ive been married almost 2 yrs i met my husband thru a online mmo game and we were friend for a couple of years on the game while we dated other people but as time went by he came to tell me how he felt about me over the years which i never really knew he liked me that much   and i got chills down my back we dated a month then we got married and now i think we got married to fast and we should of dated longer. for the last 6 months hes been verbally abusive to me and works 60 hours a week and on he days off all he wants to do is sleep sometimes which i understand cause hes tired. but for the last 6 months i was lonely sad depressed and crying cause he wasnt being intimate with me at all really so i kinda fell out of love with him and i went and started talking to one of my guy friends online and asked him for help and told him what i was feeling and hows hes been treating me but in the process we started liking each other cause he made me smile and laugh which i have not done with my hubby in 6 months and now the hole that my hubby did is now filled by this new guy and i love talking to him. i told my hubby how i felt and how he was treating me so he made a whirlwind of change but how do i not know hes going to go back to being an asshole again and ill be going thru this over and over and i feel like i love him and i care about him but i dont think im in love with him anymore and i dont know what too do can anyone help me or give me advice should i do a trial separation from him to see if my heart mends ?