i got engaged last week to my boyfriend of two years. For a long time we both have wanted to be married and begin our lives together.  Our current situation is alittle difficult for us both to handle.
My situation:I'm 23 years old, wasted four years of my life not finishing school. i don't have a job. i'm miserable at home and i need to start my life. In order for me to start my life i need to move to new jersey, i need to find a job and start school to finish. i don't want to be in florida anymore. My fiancée is opening a business in new jersey. but i told him i don't want to move there unless we're married. 
His situation: He's in New Jersey starting a business with his brother. He needs to be there to establish his residency but doesn't want to move there without me.

His solution: He wants to get married withing the next couple of weeks so that i go back to new jersey with him after the holidays.   

I don't want to rush into getting married because i want to do things right. i don't want to say"we got engaged a week ago and we're going to get married." I don't know what to do. I feel like i should go because i need to get my life in track and i feel like that's in new jersey with him. I've already wasted so much time here in florida but i can't wait much longer to begin my life. i don't know what to do. i want to be there but at the same time i don't want to rush into a marriage.