I am so sorry for your hurt. I know that the pain you are feeling right now seems absolutely unimaginable.

In short: No, it is not too late. This woman is your wife. You two have vowed to stay together forever. There is still hope, and it can still be fixed.

If she said that you weren't giving her enough attention, love, and affection, then don't stop trying now! I understand that she needs space, but if you are willing to start showing her more of those things, then don't wait until she comes back to show her. Show her now. She may need space, so don't overwhelm her or suffocate her, but do everything you can first of all to try to get her to come back home. Do it in a loving way, not accusing or manipulating her. But offer a warm and safe environment to come home to. Let her know that you will give her space there. It's very important for her to come back home. When she is there, do your part to help with household responsibilities, make her breakfast, try to make life easier for her while also showing your love for her through your actions. Don't force having sex if she doesn't feel like it. Let her have some space, but make sure she knows that you are there to talk to and listen to her. During all of this, treat her with respect and kindness. Don't talk down to her, manipulate her, or make her feel like she has to stay. Make it to where she will want to stay.

As for the man she was talking to, I believe that she was wanting to feel loved and appreciated. Since you weren't giving that to her, she probably went looking for it elsewhere. However, if you fulfill her desire for these things, then she will not need to go anywhere else.

If you both are Christians, then I hope that both of you have a deep conviction to stay together forever, through thick and thin. Keep this commitment, no matter how hard things may get. And pray for your wife constantly. If she will let you, pray with your wife.

I will be praying for you, also. I hope this helps.

I have been pretty much exactly where you are right now so I definitely feel for you. My advice to you would be to fight for what you want but keep in mind that it takes two to save the relationship.  You can lead your wife by example but eventually she will have to put out some effort as well. Good luck brother.

She has the house to herself right now. I'm trying so hard to Get through this. My issue is that I want her back but I can't stop thinking about her having sex with this guy. Is it possible she was having sex with him. Because if so I can't do this relationship. It is so hard to move on though. I try to break it off because of infidelity but she keeps on saying nothing happen and then I start to believe here but hours later have doubt again. This is just a roller coaster ride. I don't know what to do. Every time when I say it is done she's said do whatever you want but I'm gonna still think about it and if I decide to come back and you don't take me then it's my lost. She also said she will be faithful during this process. Idk what to do.

It is almost a month now and still no decision. She has been acting different towards me lately in the last 3 days. She thinks i am seeing someone cause i been dressing nice when i go out  We actually end up watching 2 movies together and one of them was a movie name if only and it was almost like our situation, she wanted me to watch it  We also had sex last night and it seem like  she was enjoying it but she still wants this space. I am still confuse. I guess since she thinks I'm seeing someone which im not is making her think twice. What are y'all thought.

You seem to be right Ledford. I am trying to go out and have fun but right now I just miss her so much. It is so hard to move on. I wish I could fast foward time and get rid of this pain.

It could possibly help but right now the money situation would not allow that. I just wonder if there is still a chance. Right now I am letting go. She has not got a chance for space to miss me yet. Now I'm going to give her that space. Hopefully she realize that I mean more to her. I would think that even though she caused the break up. She has to still got feelings for me after 6 years.

Thanks Kimberly for your prayers but right now I think she is sure about her decision. She seems to have no feelings for me whatsoever. This is going to be a divorce.