Man I hate to hear that this is happening. I've been where you are and there is nothing that anyone can say that will make it better. I do hope things turn around in your marriage....I really do.  I will pray for the both of you. 

I have been pretty much exactly where you are right now so I definitely feel for you. My advice to you would be to fight for what you want but keep in mind that it takes two to save the relationship.  You can lead your wife by example but eventually she will have to put out some effort as well. Good luck brother.

I highly recommend doing everything you can to get your husband to go with you to a Lovepath seminar. Give them a call and they can instruct you on the many ways that you can get your spouse to go. Also, yes, infatuation can make a person throw away everything and "rewrite" history.  I will pray for you.

I know exactly how you feel and it's not fair. I don't want to date either. I found the one that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I married her. Unfortunately she no longer wants to be with me so, aside from me not having a child, I feel like we are in the same boat. I don't have any magical answers but please allow me to pass on some advice that I was given. First things first, turn it over to God.  Put him first in your life and ask him for his direction.  The next step would be to get involved with something like church, volunteer work, cooking class, etc. Also remember this, if you always do what you've always done then you'll always get what you've always gotten.

Hello all!  I look forward to being a part of this forum. Joe Beam and his team (poet and didn't know it) really do offer a great service to anyone struggling in marriage. I believe that God is using them in a wonderful way!