So, I'm the guy who posted about positions and such in pregnancy. We actually had more sex during the third trimester than during the first two combined! It was really powerful to celebrate our love knowing this was how we got our baby in the first place. ;)

During labor, my wife had an episiotomy, and now it hurts when we have intercourse. Does anyone have any suggestions about how to help ease that discomfort from the healing?

My wife was given a vibrator as a present at her personal shower before we were married, and we've had a good bit of fun with it! It's recently worn out, and while we've had a great time without it, I'm wondering if anyone has some suggestions about buying a new one or from where.

I have a business trip coming up. I may just have to try this.

My wife and I relished showering with each other on our honeymoon! What better way to rinse off after sex than together in the shower?! ;) We went to Morocco for our honeymoon and shared a hamam, which is, essentially, a hot steam bath. We were provided with a wash rag and some gel, so we washed each other. Very sensual! Of course, the hamam is generally a public place, but this is how we enjoyed this private time in our hotel's spa suite!

Thanks. Well, the good news is now that she's at the beginning of her second trimester, her sex drive is back. I guess I just had to wait a bit. And she's not as tender or nauseous, so it's a little easier to cuddle or caress her. I like the idea of being at the end of the bed--we'll have to try that. For now, we're good with missionary, but I'll keep that in mind for a little later on. One thing is for sure--her orgasms are more intense! 

My wife is 10 weeks pregnant with our first child, and we're super excited, particularly since we weren't too sure we'd be able to have kids at all. (My wife has polycystic ovarian syndrome.) Since we found out about 3 weeks ago, we've only had sex twice due to first trimester nausea and fatigue. Before she got pregnant, we'd have sex about four times a week. I've heard that her sex drive will pick up in the second trimester, especially as the "morning sickness" symptoms subside a bit. So here are my questions:

1) How can I initiate/ask for sex now when she's pregnant--she's almost more sexy now than when we first got married--without being insensitive to how she feels?

2) Any tips on positions as the baby belly grows?

Thanks.