I have been married for two years and with my wife for about 4 years in total.  I love her so much, but we have been lacking intimacy in the bedroom.  We have been struggling in this area since before we got married.  At first she said it was a trust issue.  Then she said it was because I wasn't handling all the things she thought I should.  Next it went on to she didn't feel respect for me and she doesn't know how to become attracted to me again.  She has stated that it is not that she is not interested in sex at all and that there are people she finds attractive.  I have lost attraction for her as well.  She will occasionally give me sex when she forces herself to to keep me from cheating.(this has equated to about 4 times this year, each time she has acknowledged later that she didn't want to do it).  I don't enjoy the sex because I spend most of it wondering if she really wants it and I am only doing it to try to get the magic back in the bedroom.  I am not opposed to the idea of both of us having outside sexual relationships, but don't know how she will react to the proposal.  I am perfectly fine with her having relations outside of the marriage as long as we are both fulfilled.  I have been faithful and don't see the point of us being miserable if we don't have to be.  Just wanted to get a gauge from other women and men, who either agree or disagree with me.

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