Sorry you're going through this. I know it's especially discouraging to be facing issues with intimacy so early in your marriage. :( But, know that at least you're not alone! And, I think the suggestion above about pursuing therapy is a great one. It's so hard to know the reasons why a spouse might behave like this and I think a counselor can dig a little deeper and find out what's really going on. Also, I wondered if you might also want to bring this up with your doctor or see if your husband would be willing to discuss it with his doctor? It never hurts to rule out any medical issues that could be bringing this on. Lastly, if you're interested, I work at Focus on the Family and I noticed one of their counselors offered some advice on this topic in another community. So, you might want to check it out here
. Seems like she gave some good insight into why a husband might not be interested in sex... Well, I hope you're able to get some help for this issue. Hang in there!