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« on: October 13, 2009, 06:03:16 PM »
I am curious about this and would like some perspective. Is it ok to be a 'foot guy' within your marriage as long as your wife is ok with it? Are there any resources concerning this..?
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« Reply #1 on: October 14, 2009, 12:03:51 PM »
Be happy to speak to this if you would clarify what "foot guy" means to you. (It means different things to different people....)
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« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2009, 01:40:46 PM »
To me it means that instead of being a legman, or a breast man, that instead I am partial to her feet. Call it a foot fetish if you need to define it in more familiar terms....
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« Reply #3 on: October 14, 2009, 09:18:30 PM »
So your wife could give you a strip show of just taking off her shoes and socks and that'd do more for you then seeing the rest of her naked?

Hard for me to get. I'm a butt man myself...and breasts...and...well let's just say I'm an all above the knees man. It's nice if she has 10 toes, but that's about it for me as far as feet are concerned.

Glad you enjoy it though!
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« Reply #4 on: October 23, 2009, 12:18:35 PM »
Well,

I was hoping that I would get a response from the experts here, but I see that there isnt anything as of yet. I think that I am normal, even though I have a unique sexual taste...Am I right/wrong? What resources are there for a person like me?
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« Reply #5 on: October 29, 2009, 03:14:00 AM »
Quote from: gman959 on October 13, 2009, 06:03:16 PM
I am curious about this and would like some perspective. Is it ok to be a 'foot guy' within your marriage as long as your wife is ok with it? Are there any resources concerning this..?

To me it means that instead of being a legman, or a breast man, that instead I am partial to her feet. Call it a foot fetish if you need to define it in more familiar terms....

There are no references in the bible that I know of concerning sexual gratification being achieved through the use of a foot. Any fetish in the bible is usually referred to as a perversion and, for me at least, that was always a sign of what to watch out for in terms of things to stay away from and things that if gone unchecked can overtake your better senses.
 
What you two do in agreement in the sanctity of your bedroom is solely up to you two but as with anything else, in moderation only. I'm sure you could see how a married couple's sex life might suffer if all a husband paid attention to in bed were his wife's feet.

That's merely my opinion and sorry for the lack of references, there just aren't any that I know of other than the many that amount to:

Having fun and being creative=good

Allowing something to become an obsession=bad


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« Reply #6 on: October 30, 2009, 03:21:05 AM »
Well to be honest, I don't seem to recall reading about fetishes in the bible either. I agree that what my wife and I enjoy in our bedroom is our own business, but that aside, whose to say what is normal and what is not? I think that you have some misconceptions about this as well because we are happily married and we have been so for some time and I am able to pay attention to other areas of her as well....
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« Reply #7 on: October 30, 2009, 11:24:32 AM »
ya that could be my fault, I thought you saying it was a fetish. didn't mean to offend, sorry.


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« Reply #8 on: October 30, 2009, 11:47:08 AM »
None Taken. I think that the misconceptions stem from the use of the word, "fetish". I tend to believe it is more of a fascination. I really dislike the use of the word 'fetish' since it seems to be the root of more mistruths than anything....
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« Reply #9 on: November 13, 2009, 02:37:34 PM »
Quote from: gman959 on October 23, 2009, 12:18:35 PM
Well,

I was hoping that I would get a response from the experts here, but I see that there isnt anything as of yet. I think that I am normal, even though I have a unique sexual taste...Am I right/wrong? What resources are there for a person like me?

Gman, Joe said that he would be happy to talk about it if you'd clarify what you meant by being a foot guy. So I think that's what he's waiting on. I know he's conducting the seminar for troubled marriages this weekend but Tuesday he should be able to respond.
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« Reply #10 on: November 16, 2009, 01:20:42 PM »
Gman,

I think as long as your wife is ok with you fawning over her feet, then it's ok to be a foot guy :) There are so many couples who have a "fetish" about something, so as long as the spouse is good with whatever that is, then I think it's ok.

Now, when it comes to the fetishes that physically hurt the partner, that's a whole other story!
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« Reply #11 on: November 19, 2009, 06:12:53 PM »
I didnt know I had any responses...!

To admin; I am pretty sure I have clarified what a 'foot guy' means. I am certain he knows as well, it doesn't take a rocket scientist, LOL!

To Joanna: I like your approach to this question. Thank you for your insight!
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« Reply #12 on: February 04, 2010, 09:33:53 PM »
I'm lost. Why wouldn't it be okay? I'm trying to think of some interpretation of "foot guy" that could possibly make it not okay...nope, can't think of a thing.
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« Reply #13 on: February 08, 2010, 12:19:19 PM »
You would be surprised! over on another christian marriage forum, I have heard many stories from other 'foot guys' whose wives are ok with it and even and enjoy it, but if someone finds out about it, they are told that they are sinning. My wive loves it personally, but I am never surprised to hear of someone who thinks that its wrong....
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« Reply #14 on: April 27, 2010, 07:50:55 AM »
Whether it's the foot or any other parts as long as you love each other -- that will keep any relationship working.
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