true cuckolding would mean your husband is watching you have sex with another man. if you were supposed to be having sex with others without him, it would simply be cheating. sounds like you did not do either.

if your husband cannot handle the truth that you are a loyal spouse who is only interested in him, perhaps you should seek counseling.

cuckolding is not really conducive to a healthy marriage...especially where kids are present. i submit you are the normal one...you husband needs to get a grip and down to life and the happiness of being with you.

to imagine you with other men is for him to fulfill feelings of inadequacy at being able to fulfill you. so he has to see other men do it. sick really. if he cannot get around it? move on...you and your kids will be better for it...seriously.