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Risky
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« on: January 27, 2012, 10:11:13 PM »

My husband and I had a decent sex life before we got married 3 years ago. We are in our late 20's. I admit that I went through a deep depression after we got married and sex was not much of a priority. But I came out of that depression but the sex never recovered. We might have sex every two months. I have tried to get him to talk about it. I agree that asking someone if there is something wrong is annoying. It only bugs him more and makes him more distant and pissy. He is either tired or has a headache. Those are his primary excuses. I even offer to do all the work, but he really is not interested. I have tried doing the sexy lingerie thing and trying different things. Nothing too crazy like a threesome or anything. Honestly I just end up feeling like a rejected fool. Kinda hurts my feelings, but I am committed to finding a way to work this out.   

I do not believe he is getting it someplace else. He is affectionate just not interested in sex.  
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« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2012, 05:50:58 PM »

Some men just have a very low sex drive.  But I wonder since before marriage it seems your sex drives were more of a match.  Outside factors often are the issue, human beings generally like to feel needed and valued, and if his finances or job are lowering his self esteem or creating huge amounts of stress that can kill his sex drive. I saw a great article about this on Web MD about 3 mos ago or so you may want to try looking there.  Often times when a partner is experience a low sex drive it has nothing to do with love/sex.  And usually isn't a lack of care/love/desire that is the issue, but a lack of confidence(not necessarily in the bedroom).
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« Reply #2 on: May 30, 2012, 06:19:31 AM »

Hi,
You have to talk with him. You are married from last 2 years. It's a very short period to end your sexual life. Just try to get his interest back in sexual life. Do every thing which is possible for you and talk to him on each problem. Maybe it is because of your depression period.




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« Reply #3 on: June 07, 2012, 05:20:07 PM »

Has he tried Endurnz?  I does wonders for my own sex drive.
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