What? No takers?

In my opinion to stay pure sexually we must have a spiritual foundation that puts a value on this.  Couples need to pray together and be open with one another about their struggles.  I think it is IMPERATIVE, especially for men, to have other godly men to share their struggles with and to hold them accountable.  We can't have ANY secrets.  Satan seems to use secrets like anchors to keep us bound to a certain thought or feeling.  Quite often if I just confess a struggle to either my spouse or a christian brother it takes away the power of that temptation.  Purity is not easy in this world but for the sake of our marital relationships it is imperative.

Steve

itwasme,

I believe that God has given us freedom in the "sex department" with our spouse. There are a few things that it should not involve:

1. It shouldn't involve another person
2. No animals (beastiality)
3. Don't do anything that will cause harm to the other person

I believe those are the only things we have to watch out for. Anything/everything else is ok. If you and your spouse want to try something new, and you both agree to try it, then it's good! I really don't think God is judging how you have sex...unless you're doing something that He commanded not to do.

My opinion :)