My husband and I are attending the Love Path workshop next weekend.  I'm really nervous about this and even questioning how effective it will even be.  I had a baby in April after 3 years of infertility and finally invitro fertilization.  We were happily married (so I thought) for almost ten years before the baby.  In July my husband began having an affair, which he finally admitted to on Sept 25--after over a month of telling me he wasn't happy anymore and pretty much rewriting history.  I understand about the whole limerance thing--I've researched all I can.  My husband moved out on Oct 23 (after I discovered who the other woman was) and has not returned.  He filed for divorce and I was served two days before Xmas.  He agreed in early December to attend the workshop, but I'm not sure of why he agreed to go.  I'm just thankful he is going.  When we first started having problems I did all the "wrong" things.  I begged, pleaded, cried, tried making him feel guilty--all the things that just pushed him right out the door.  Around mid November I totally changed all that and stopped doing any relationship talk and just started being attractive and funny (my normal personality) while he came to see the baby. Things have gotten so much better as far as us getting along and having fun when we are together.  He is coming around a lot more to see the baby. He even told me I was more than welcome to sleep in the same bed as him and the baby when he stays overnight to help me (usually I would sleep in the other room).  He was really sweet on Christmas.  And things are just better overall.  We have not discussed our relationship or reconciliation.  He is pretty much forming his own life in other town--rented an apt, bought new furniture, etc.  Things are better between us--but I'm not sure if his mind is where mine is--hoping for reconciliation. 
So, to get to the point---my question--especially for those who have attended the seminar--how in the world does it work?  I'm so scared there is no way my husband can be reached or his mind changed.  Marty from Love Path tells me it's an absolutely transormational and amazing weekend that really works---but HOW?  I'm so nervous that the outcome won't be what I am praying for....Any advice or input is greatly appreciated!  Thanks in advance!!

Thanks for your response, Joe.  I look forward to meeting you on Friday.  I'll be the one shaking all over b/c I'm so nervous! ;-)

It is scary but it will be worth it



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