I am in a marriage where my wife has had two affairs. Both times she has had an affair she has said that she wants a divorce. I have lived in the same house with her since I found out about this current affair for about a month. Keith has been more than helpful with giving me advice on how to handle the situation. She has agreed to go but I dont feel it is to save the marriage because she seems to have no remorse towards me for what she has done. But I dont know her heart right now. She stays very busy with house work. We both lash out at each other atleast once a week or more. I more than her. I hope I havent made to much damage to heal our marriage. I hope that our marriage is one of the three out of four that survives. Actually I pray that the seminar is 100% success for all couples involved. I am very nervous of the outcome. Are the percentages higher for the couples with infidelity involved. I will come with an open mind and heart to make the changes I need to make, I just am scared she wont because she thinks marriage help books are corny and marriage counselling is a waste of time. I keep praying that God will soften her heart.