Hi, my husband and I have been separated for 2 months and he is wanting a divorce very quickly. It is because of my unfaithfulness- he does not "want" to divorce me but says he cant undo anything thats been done, cant rebuild trust, and is under great pressure by his friends and boss and family to do this quickly and move on.  I have been on my own journey of healing and desire greatly for my husband and I to be restored!  He has agreed to go with me to the marriage conference in August- if I were to sign the divorce paperwork before we go.  I told him that I would sign the paperwork (which is hard for me to agree to do) but After we attend the workshop.
I am so nervous about going because I have put everything on the line to get us there- but really believe that we are supposed to be there, even the way that God has brought this into my path.
I really believe that it could be a powerful weekend for my husband and I- however, I am worried about the -after- because he has SO many people that are against our marriage- he has many single friends who are helping him "drink and party" his hurt and pain away right now, and those people will be there as soon as we get home- He works with them, they are living in my house.  Has anyone been through this at all or experienced this?

I am really excited that he is atleast going- I am praying and believing for a miracle to happen in both of our hearts and he would desire reconciliation of our marriage again. Any advice, encouragement or testimony of people who have been through this seminar would be great! Praying that we are one of the 3 out of  4 couples saved! I chose this route rather than the "legal" route which many people told me to take.  Please pray for us if you think of it! thank you