My Husband and I have been married for 14 years. He is a sexual addict. I am co-dependent.
We were planning on divorcing. He says he is who he is, does not want to hurt me any more. I took that as he does not want to change. I belive anyone can change if they want to and is willing to surrender to God. I was beginning to move on and accept this. I have been involve with my church and celebrate recovery. I came home from a weekend visiting my Mom and he now wants to work things out. I had just found out about him having an affair in December and a possible girlfriend. I confronted him with this and asked him to move out prior to me leaving. I know he loves me. We have 2 Daughters. I am reluctant to work on us now, but have set some boundaries. I asked him to attend a marriage intensive and to continue to get help. I don't want to be hurt anymore. I understand that I play a huge role in his recovery. Would this program be able to help us? Is it worth saving? Am I being naive?