My Husband and I have been married for 14 years.  He is a sexual addict.  I am co-dependent.
We were planning on divorcing.  He says he is who he is, does not want to hurt me any more.  I took that as he does not want to change.  I belive anyone can change if they want to and is willing to surrender to God.  I was beginning to move on and accept this.  I have been involve with my church and celebrate recovery.  I came home from a weekend visiting my Mom and he now wants to work things out.  I had just found out about him having an affair in December and a possible girlfriend.  I confronted him with this and asked him to move out prior to me leaving.  I know he loves me.  We have 2 Daughters.   I am reluctant to work on us now, but have set some boundaries.  I asked him to attend a marriage intensive and to continue to get help.  I don't want to be hurt anymore.  I understand that I play a huge role in his recovery.  Would this program be able to help us?  Is it worth saving?  Am I being naive?