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« Reply #15 on: September 22, 2009, 10:32:56 AM »
Cutch, I'm so glad that the workshop renewed the commitment that both of you have for each other. I pray that the commitment you have now grows even stronger! 
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« Reply #16 on: September 24, 2009, 09:06:20 AM »
My husband and I attended the workshop September 18th through 20th. We both are extremely committed to each other! What we both took away this past weekend is a reaffirmation of our committment and that we both trust each other very much. We both have always know this, but attending the seminar and looking at things in a different way was invigorating! I encourage you both to attend.
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« Reply #17 on: September 24, 2009, 09:13:20 AM »
Lee and I attended the July workshop. It really opened both of our eyes to a lot of things and it truely did save our marriage!

Glad things are going for y'all and hope it keeps getting better :)
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« Reply #18 on: September 25, 2009, 04:19:37 PM »
Cutch,

I'm glad to hear that. That sounds like our experience. Plus I realized that all marriages are a constant work in progress. And that just because we have arguments, disagreements or bad days it doesn't mean one or both of us are terrible partners. Marriage is constant upkeep.
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« Reply #19 on: December 12, 2009, 08:07:31 PM »
Hi new here and was wondering if anyone can tell me what this seminar costs my wife and i are in need of help soon we seem to have


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« Reply #20 on: December 13, 2009, 08:07:56 AM »
Hi pcseminole,

I'm sorry to hear that things are not going well right now in your marriage. As for the LovePath 911 workshop, the next one is December 18-20 and right now there is a special going on for this workshop only. So, call 866-903-0990 and ask for Marty. He'll be able to give you more information on the price and register you and your wife.

We'll be praying for you and your wife!

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« Reply #21 on: January 01, 2010, 06:26:17 PM »
Just wanting some advice on whether the 911 weekend can help us.  Husband file for divorce 1.5 years ago with divorce being final in 8 weeks.  I have tried so many things to save our marriage, but there seems to be greener grass and several affairs he has been involved in.  I am going to try to get him to come to the weekend as a negotiation tool otherwise he will not come.  Although, he has expressed confusion about his decision, he has yet to stop divorce.  He will have to be forced to come, and I wonder if there is any hope for people in our situation.  We have a precious little boy who is hurting so much along with myself.    I am nearing the end, and am hoping for a miracle.
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« Reply #22 on: January 01, 2010, 07:12:42 PM »
hangingon,

I'm sorry to hear about your situation! To answer your question, YES the LovePath workshop can help you. More than 1/2 the couples that come, one of them doesn't want to be there. So, if you have to guilt him into coming or use "No divorce until you come to this" strategy, then do it! Don't feel bad! You're trying to keep your family together and there's nothing wrong with that.

If you call the office at 866-903-0990 Monday morning, you can talk to someone and they can help you make a decision.

Hope this helps, and remember that there IS hope for your marriage.

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« Reply #23 on: April 06, 2010, 07:54:41 PM »
Hi.  I would like some feedback on our situation.  I think the LovePath911 seminar will help...

My wife had an affair back in Oct 2008 and we tried to work on our marriage.  Things were good for two or three months, but she kept in touch with the other man.  In Jan 2009 she said she didn't know if we would end up together.  She moved out in Aug 2009 and she filed for divorce on 3/22/10.  She is currently living with the other man.  I want to save our marriage, even though it may "seem" hopeless.  I have an opportunity to to talk to her this Thurs about attending the seminar. 

I don't believe in divorce... if I sign the paperwork, it goes against my values... anyway, I spoke to someone at LovePath and he seemed to think that if I say that I want to go for "closure" or to "help me move on", that she might be more willing to agree to the 3-day seminar.  He said that the seminar would be beneficial to both of us and it might help save the marriage.  It is true that I would need some closure, but even if she went I would still try to save our marriage down the road... I guess the "closure" would be beneficial if she ultimately followed through with the divorce...  I don't want to "trick her" in to coming, but do want her to go with me... 

For those that have attended, would it be appropriate to ask her to go, given that her heart isn't in the marriage and that she has told me that she doesn't want to save the marriage?  What are your thoughts?   Will she feel manipulated, given our situation?

Thanks for your help!
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« Reply #24 on: April 27, 2010, 12:03:35 PM »
SavingMarriage,

I think you need to do whatever you can do get her there! Whether it be "closure" or just coming right out and saying "do this or I won't sign the papers." If you can just get her there, it will do wonders for your relationship.

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« Reply #25 on: June 03, 2010, 03:43:12 PM »
Thanks Joanna,

I did ask my wife last April and she wasn't willing to go unless I signed the divorce papers.  She is so far involved with this other man -- her family has met him, I believe she met his, and I think she is moving out of state with him soon.  She is so desperate for a divorce, she said she would go if I promise to sign the papers and give her a divorce. 

This would be so difficult to do, since it goes against my Christian values.  I did speak to Lee at LovePath and he had some good suggestions.  It appears my wife's hear is to out of our marriage (she said she moved on already and wants to live her life), will she feel awkward being there with me.... or will there be others who absolutely don't want to be there.  Any insight would be helpful.

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« Reply #26 on: June 03, 2010, 04:37:21 PM »
Yes there will be others who will not want to be there. About half of the couples that come, at least one of them doesn't want to be there. It doesn't matter though...they're there. And by the end of the weekend, those marriages have hope again.

And this whole business of wanting you to sign the papers before she'll agree to go, that's bull...! What a cop-out! If you sign the papers, what's keeping her there?! NOTHING!! She's playing mind games with you...don't fall for it! Tell her you'll ONLY sign the papers IF she'll go and participate and finish the whole weekend. No compromise on that one. And don't say it sheepishly, say it confidently and with a tone that says "this is the way it's going to be."  Don't back down no matter what she says or how angry she may get. If you want a shot at your marriage lasting, you need to act like it.

Just remember, don't give in and sign those papers. Get her to the workshop. You can even tell her you'll pack the papers and have them there and at the end of the workshop if she still feels strongly about wanting out, you'll sign them then. 

She can say she wants out all she wants. But, don't let that get you down. It's not over till it's over.

Hope this helps! And talking to Lee is good too! He knows what he's talking about :)
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« Reply #27 on: September 10, 2010, 07:25:59 AM »
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« Reply #28 on: September 10, 2010, 09:12:14 AM »
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« Reply #29 on: September 20, 2010, 10:08:27 PM »
Cutch,
My husband and myself were also in the Love Path Workshop this past weekend. We drove all the way from Northern Indiana to Nashville. I can honestly say the drive home was not as hard as the drive there. I went to the workshop in hatred and complete bitterness. I was so angry and did not even reolise the depth of the hatred i had not only for my husband, but for myself as well. There still is a lot of healing that has to happen. I can honestly say that i still have to forgive my husband as well as myself just as Jesus has done that for me. I have to remember the love that God has given to me and and pass that on to my husband and my family. The workshop has provided some very valuable tools and guidlines to fallow and live by. I hope and pray that what we have been shown will become a part of our lives. I hope and pray that those that go will hold fast to what was shown  to them.
Because of Jesus,

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