My husband has asked me to come up with a list of things I can do that will help show him that I am working on our marriage. Here is what I have so far and I would love some more ideas on what I can add. Thanks!!

A)   read relationship themed books/articles
B)   journal
C)   send him a letter
D)   spend quality time with him
E)   see therapist

That's a good list but, how will the journal help show him that you're working on things? Reading books is a good one. If I may suggest a couple: Becoming One by Joe Beam and Your LovePath by Joe Beam. You can find both of those at http://www.joebeam.com/books.htm

In my opinion therapists are sometimes overrated. I'm not saying they aren't helpful, but that's the first thing people always think of when they're having problems. When the fact is, there are other options out there that are far less expensive and work just as well. You might want to take Admin's suggestion and look into attending Joe's LovePath workshop. Call 866-903-0990 and speak to a marriage consultant for more details. If you register the both of you for this, that will DEFINITELY show him that you are working on things.