My marriage has hit a crisis and I don’t know what to do!! We have been married for 8 years and toghter for 13. Over the time we have been through several crisis. Her parents were in a major car accident where we lost here father and her mother is handicap for the rest of her life. Several years ago it was my turn, my mother had heart issues and we thought we were going to lose her as well. Recently we were trying to have a second child and had to terminate a late stage pregnancy. As you can see we haven’t exactly had an easy road but stuck together through some really trying times. Not with standing that our marriage has been picture perfect either.
After we lost the child my wife went back to work. Originally this was supposed to be part time but she dove in on a full time basis against my objection. After that this has been a major point of contention between us.
Of course like every story there is much more but at least need to get some of this off my chest!!!
About a month ago I noticed that my wife has come extremely agate with me and started staying away from the house more and more.
We finally get a chance to sit down and she says that we have grown part and feels that we are more like friends and says that she’s changed. When I asked what her solution was it was that see needed a break to feel like she missed me. She has put up a wall and is very cold and distant without a regard for me.
We started to go to consoling but I’m afraid that it maybe too late or will use it s a grounds to justify her thoughts, as she just doesn’t want to be around me any more. I’m confused and am over analysis everything and just writing for her to ask me for a divorce.