I am extremely curious to see how you make this happen...

If I may ask:

1. How old are you guys?
2. How long have you been married?
3. How long have you been doing this "twice a day" routine?
4. How long do you believe you can keep this up?
5. Are BOTH of you enthusiastic about this routine?

Here are the kickers:

1.  I am 31, she is 33.
2.  We have been married only for a little over a year.  Yep, go ahead and put us in the newly-wed category.
3.  We've been doing this nearly the entire year... with a few days here and there off due to work.
4.  Yep.  We have jobs.

But, since we're only 1.25 years into our marriage, that'll knock us out of the realm of experienced spouses.

Though, for the record, we both come from 12-15 year previous marriages... and we're the most anti-divorce divorcees you'll ever run across imho.

Cool. I think you'll keep a feeling of intense closeness that way. And you'll both be healthier. Twice a day sounds like a challenge. Once a day is breeze cause...the work is fun!

There, I got awkward so everyone else can show courage and talk about sex now.

 

Do you guys have any kids?  I have found that seems to be the biggest challenge for us, we look at each other a little different and I swear our kids wake up and come in our room.

Um. Wow. That definitely deserves some kind of award!

I love this catergory lol! Making love is truly the best way to began and start a day...it's even great if you take a "mid day nap" we've found lol (or at least that is what the kids think).

To answer Joes' questions: my hubby is 39 yrs old and I am 31 yrs old, we both are now loooving sex so much the experiment Joe, we still are enjoying it promise i'll get it to you this week lol).

We've been married almost 4 yrs (put us in the newlywed line if you'd like).

We've been doing the 2x's a day rountine since Nashville in June lol...it's your fault Joe but I know you will be proud to take the blame for it!

We will keep it up as long as we can physically do it, the more we do it, the more we seem to want each other in that way!

Umm yes we are both beyond excited about the routine because for me, I am able to open up sexually like never before and he is enjoying getting his high sex drive pleased and met.

And yes we both have jobs, a child starting college, 1 in middle school and a 2 yr old toddler! So, as you can see life is busy for us, but we have been finding ways for each other so that we can "communicate"! We tell the children that we have to "talk" about some important things or we put the baby down for a nap and tell the kids that we are doing the same, lock the door and go for what we know lol!

We also do other things like secretly eating in ways to turn the other on, a whole lot of P.D.A. and texting....

Just to give you guys something else to think about, Joe said something in the seminar that made me reconsider how I interact with my husband in front of the kids. I was brought up where I didn't see affection being my parents so, I thought that was how it should be done. Now I know better, so I kiss my husband (not inapproriately), hug him, hold his hand, rub his shoulders, arms or back in front of the kids so that they can see love between man and woman, husband and wife, mom and dad. We want our children to know that this is "the right thing to do" and hopefully avoid the issues that I dealt with well into my marriage!