I Won't make this real long - just to say.  That I am 18 months into dealing with my husband being in love with another woman. He has not left me, and has not gone to meet her yet.  But he loves her more than he loves me he says.  And depressately wants to be with her. 

Dear Solitude,

I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I am going through about the same thing right now. Will try to get this out with out sounding to confusing. A few weeks ago my wife of 10 years said she no longer is in love with me. That she is in love with somebody that she met on an internet forum. I have tried everything to win her back but, her vision is to far clouded by this new relationship that nothing I have tried works and she says she was asked to stop then she would pine for him. It is easier to work on a new relationship then work on an old one. Right now we are in the process of separating out of mutual respect and agreement. And its hard as I have chosen to move out of state. We have two daughters which I have mostly taken care of for this whole time. And I hate to leave them, but know they are in good hands and hope this is a learning experience and hopefully she will realize what she had once its gone. But know you have done nothing wrong.

I understand how you would probably feel at the moment. It is really difficult to hold back your emotions and treat as if everything is okay even though you are hurting inside. Him, leaving you for another woman might be heartbreaking and give you jealousy in relationships, but then, life has to move on. If you want to win him back, then always do proper communication within. No problem was ever solved with proper communication. Always open the line of forgiveness and trust if you want things to be back to normal. Check this website http://www.jealousy-in-relationships.net to  learn more about jealousy in relationships due to infidelity.