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« on: November 07, 2011, 03:16:59 PM » |
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I’m 28 years old, married for 3 years, no kids. Few weeks ago we went out with one friend of mine (girl) to another city (2 hrs by car away). There we met two men. I liked one of them very much, we were talking the whole evening in the restaurant and then in pub later on. I felt like he’s my soul mate, we have so much in common. He asked me whether I’m married and I said ‘yes’. He was a bit disappointed. He said that he is 36 and no GF at the moment. We exchanged our FBs. Next day I’ve found him on FB and send him a msg “hi, how r u?”. He answered one day later, that he had great time going out with me and maybe next time we can do it in my city. We met again in my city in one week and went out (me, him and this female friend of mine). It was great! We were talking a lot again and I discovered even more things that we have in common (things we like, hobbies, places to travel, habits etc.). We talked a bit abt his relations with his last ex, and he was asking really a lot abt my husband and our relations. I tried to escape from this topic, cos it’s really complicated and I don’t want to discuss it with anyone (nobody, even my close friends, knows the truth abt my marriage). He didn’t give me any sexual signs, no touching or hugging or trying to do so. At 4 am me and friend of mine went home and he went to his hotel. Then we met in the morning for cup of coffee. He said that if I come occasionally to his city I should call him and we’ll meet. After this we didn’t contact for a week, cos we were both on business trips, then I wrote him on FB asking how was his trip. He answered that it was good and wrote that we can meet once. I proposed him last weekend, he wrote that he cannot because he goes to his parents (abt 6 hrs driving) and that “hopefully we can meet other time”. Then I wrote that we can meet in 3 weeks, cos I will be on business trip very close to his city. No answer for 6 days. I saw him online on FB couple of times, so I’m pretty sure that he read my msg. Dear forum members, what do u think: is he not interested anymore? Or he doesn’t want anything with married woman? Or is this a kind of game – to delay the answer? Thanks in advance for the opinions!! Maybe it’s a bit childish, or I’m inpatient… But I really like this man!
P.S. plz, don’t say that I’m married and shouldn’t behave like this, etc. etc. My marriage is another topic. It’s very complicated and probably I will divorce in a year or two. But now I cannot change the situation because of some very personal circumstances.
thanks for reading..
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