ok so 5 weeks ago my husband told me that he didn't love me anymore and he wanted a divorce. I found out days later that my 37 year old husband is having an affair with a 24 year old. It's been a very interesting 5 weeks. One minute I think he wants me back and the very next I think he hates me. He has been giving me mixed signals.  He has asked me on several family outings most of which I have gone to. After a family outing which I thought was a wonderful time he spends 2 days with his girlfriend. I text him and told him to come get his stuff. I changed the locks on the doors, which seemed to anger him, and packed his stuff up in plastic containers. He came by a little while ago to get them and our daughter. He appeared very upset and almost tearful at first then seemed angry and said that packing up he knew would be the hardest thing to do but he said I made it very easy for him since I did it. He almost seemed to smile. Then asked me "what's wrong with you" when he saw me cry as if he had no clue. I asked "is this what you really want?" He said this is what I'm doing. I repeated my question only to get "I don't know but this is what I'm doing"  So did I really mess up by packing up his stuff?