This is gonna sound like a no brainer and totally dumb but here comes the drama. Before i married my wife i knew she had 3 differnt kids with 3 differnt guys, ding ding ding warning sign right there. Well first off she was married to her first husband and had 3 kids, none of which are his? Well she divorced him and married the father of kid number 3. Well while she was with him is when i came into the picture. I had known her for years and so on, she is beautiful and a beauty pagent winner, no really. Well she started sneaking away from the house to meet me. Well she would go see her first 2 kids, which her first husband has custody of even though he is not their father. She gets everyother weekend visitations. Well according to her he wont let her bring them home, but she can pick them up there and take them to relatives that live in the same county for the day. Since we have been together (7 mons) she has went over there 3 times. Well she wont talk during the day i mean weekday , just text. she will call at night time. During the weekends when she is over there she wont call any at all. Her ex husband works the typical graveyard shift 11pm-7am. Just a happenstance???? She sends me pics of her and her kids, however upon looking at her exs profile u can clearly see that it is in his house and is sent at 9pm. She says she can only get them when he lets her and she went to pick them up she is just so excited to see her kids she just starts taking pictures. But then i say well he goes to work at 10 and he wont let u keep them over night she says that is just when she sent the pics. Well the wedding was a total disaster, her kids screaming and crying her holding her kids hand during the ceremony. Ten days later she asked what i thought about it and i told her the truth. Well i was working grave yard shift on day 12 of the marriage and noticed she stayed online most of the night, sparingly talking to me. I also noticed she posted a love song to her wall at 3 in the morning and somedude liked it. A problem? Well i confronted her about it and she said he was just a friend and she felt sorry for him since his lil boy had just died, which was true. I still said bs stop talking to him, her reply? You cant controll me im going to be friends with whoever i want. So im sleeping the next evening getting ready for the next graveyard shift and she comes into the room about 5pm and says her brother and her are going fishing. Well at 7 she calls me and says her phone is going dead and will see me when she gets home shortly> well time for work came, still no her. Called her she answered and said they were still fishing. She texted me randomly til about 2am then i tried calling her and she didnt answer. A few minutes later she called back. I asked her why her phone still wasnt dead and she said she had been turning it on and back off.  I asked her Why she didnt answer. She said it was to loud inside. I asked her where the hell she was at? with great hesitaion she told me where she was at. I knew it to be a relative of the guy i had got jealous of so i told her it was over. I asked her when she was going home? She said im not and that she was to tired. It is half a mile from the house!!!!! I called bs and asked where he was at? She played stupid. So picked her up the morning after i got off work and she was wearing differnt clothes, no wedding ring, and had red marks on her neck and what not. Well of course she still said nothing happened. Well i had to go run an errand and when i pulled up to the house i seen her at the computer frantically trying to close out a chat window but the computer froze. Then seconds later she got a text from the guy calling me a bitch and i told her to stand up for me and said i dont know why he is doing that. So i took her phone, and i took a beating in getting it!!!! Well 4 hours later i finally got her to sign back on and sure enough they had talked about meeting over there for sex amongest other things like how she couldnt wait to get divorced and how she wanted to have his kid. Well for a solid week of no sleep and fighting she kept insisting he never showed up. Finally when i was tossing her stuff out the door she said he was there, but said nothing ever happened and she told him it was a mistake. Well for 3 months she stuck with her guns, until i loaded her up and hauled her to mommas. After a day of being there she did admit to doing it. I still think if i hadnt caught it so fast it would have kept on going. Well we have always had problems with ex number one. She would get texts at 3am and so on. I would tell her to make him stop and her answer was to just ignore it and he would quit. Well i seen some of them and some would say stuff like i love you and we cant wait for you to come home. Well one time at 3am he sent one and asked for more pics, she still refused to tell him off. So i started calling him, and everytime he would say ok ill quit. But it keeps on. She has no job and no desire to work and hence still does lil around the house. Plus her phone is always on vibrate and when shes asleep unde the pillow. Phone calls and texts are constantly getting erased. Since she is lazy i stopped paying for anything. Her phone got shut off once and we got into an argument about a text from him the night before at 1159pm the night her phone got shut off.  So i called him  and he said fine i wont pay for her phone. Then this last time it got shutoff it was off for a day and then turned back on she said her mom paid for it. Well first thing in the morning there was i text pic of him and her kids saying we miss u mommy. I asked how the hell did he know u had more minutes? I dont know. I called him and asked. He said cause i bought them. I made her call mom and ask her why she had bought her phone time? her response was just in case. She told her that richard had said he bought them. Then she started acting like the phone was breaking up and hung up. Well everyday she brags about how much better we are doing, and how we are going to be together forever. But everyday i notice missing phonecalls or texts, cause i reset the timers everday and erase everything!!!!! I tell her everyday to get out and its never going to work, but she still is there. I realize she was prob fed meth in a sippy cup, but why the continuous lies? What should i do? Any help or comments welcome!!!!! Thanks