Someone please shed some light on this for me?
I will start at the very beginning, my wife and i met in a pub that i was working at and we got together after a short while we had moved in together and bought a flat my inlaws were running a petrol station at the time in the southwest.
I had taken the dog for a walk and from under the seat i heard her mobile go off, it was a txt msg from shall we call him mr southwest asking her how hard her bed springs were!!!
I approached her about it and she said that is was this guy that was trying to get to her sister not her.
I belived her, this was about a year in.
We had sold the flat  and moved into a 3 bedroom house and acquired 3 dogs now, during this time i had proposed to her and she agreed to marry me.  after our wedding i still had a little bit of curiosity about her fone going off all the time.
I finally got to read it (yes i know i shouldn’t have ) but i did.
It was from a guy who had lived over the road from her parents who we had known since he was 3yrs old from the pub we met in. We can call him mr northwest ( sorry its the best i can do at the moment.....)
After our wedding and the honeymoon another txt came through  so i read her phone again (i think still suspicious from mr southwest)
It was from her sister but as i scrolled down i got to the 9th of may and noticed a txt from mr northwest saying how large his jenatails were!!!!!! This had come through the day before our wedding day!!

She said that it was proof that the txts were going both ways as she was being accused from mr northwest of sexual harrasment! From a well known department store.
I again forgave her and we moved on and had a baby together (the greatest day of our lifes)
During xmas of 2011 i noticed she was gettint some txt msgs from someone called sec on her new phone that i had bought her sayin stuff like, enjoy your new vibrating fone.
I again quizzed her about it and she said that it was 1 of the security women from another store i belived it

After a while and a few more txt msgs i started to get a suspicion that it was not a women and that this person was actually working oin the same department store as her.

My little boy is now 2 yrs old and after and we have not been getting on very well
I had noticed that the txt msgs were getting more and more provocative.
I kept getting more and more jealous and angry.
 It was on the 5th of may 2012 that she said that we needed time apart and asked if i would take my sone to Stafford to see my family.
Finally i knew something was wrong and agreed so we put my son in the car at 10 am on the 5th of may 2012.
As i was up in Stafford she asked me what time i was leaving on the Sunday, so i said 16;00hrs
Which meant i would have got home about 18:00 hrs
I actually left at 13:00 hrs i was going to surprise her, her car was there when i got home.
So i rushed through the front door and she was quite surprised and happy to see us .
As i walked up the stairs i noticed that the bed sheets had been changed, they were only changed a week before that.
So i asked why and she said she just wanted to freshen it up for when we got home.
As i sought out the previous bed sheet and unrolled it i noticed a stain in the middle of the bed sheet.
She said it was from the nappy that had leeked just before we left for Stafford.
And then it came she said that she had no feelings for me and that she needed time and space to sort herself out.
I begged on both of my knees for a last chance and i refused to believe that it was over.
Anyway she said she had to go and do some plain clothes security work, so i left it 5 mins and put my boy in the car ( by this time she was guarding her fone with her life) i could never get hold of it everytime she got a txt msg she said it was my niece so i txt my niece and she said that she hadn’t had any contact with her.
Soi rushed down to the supermarket and i found her car,
 Fortunately we have had a problem with the central locking and we couldn’t lock the car
I new her fone was in her security jacket and i saw that on the front seat, as is searched it i couldn’t find but i did find it in the center console of the car (RESULT)
As i looked through i had found that she had been having sex with this guy in our bed whilst i was at workand my son was asleep  and evevn my nxt door neighbour confirmed the car that ewas on the drive.
I feel so ashamed i went around to her parents and begged for their help.
They duley abliged he has been in my house screwing my mrs she has been going out when i have gone to sleep i feel so ashamed , empty,angry dirty,so filthy i don’t know what to do i want to split him in half im so ANGRY SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME