My wife and I have been married for 16 years.  The last few have been very difficult--2 miscarriages, I had a medical emergency which I am finally fully recovered from.  She travels to her business which is 5 hours away--one way.  She has grown very close to a manager of hers which she recentally planned to move into a rented home until I blocked her by changing all the locks and called her out on her affair--which she denied.  She has not been home is 2 months...She is in the pawn business and stated she melted her wedding band 2 months ago to make payroll and told me in April she had no interest in sex.  We have no children.

I am amazed that she would take up with one of her managers whoses habits she despises--Chain smoker, much older, & beer belly....She went from our marital home of 16 years with all the trappings of success to a one bedroom apartment with the manager.

Does her relationship really stand a chance given that my wife is VERY Prim and Proper
and the manager is x-military (i have nothing against those who defend our country) and generally a sleaze.....