How can the person who was once in love with you now be in love with someone else?

Why is s/he no longer the person that you fell in love with? Why has s/he become someone that you hardly recognize?

How can s/he seem to no longer care about me? About our children? About our life together?

The psychological word for it is limerence. That word describes people who are “madly in love” and all that goes with it.

In this program, Joe Beam explains in detail what limerence is, how it occcured, why it changes a person, and how it will end. (It always ends…)

More than that, Joe offers practical suggestions of what you should do if you wish to save your marriage.

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5 thoughts on “[PODCAST] Why Your Spouse Loves Another- Understanding Limerence- The Dr. Joe Show Podcast

  • March 30, 2017 at 10:20 pm
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    I’m a betrayed husband and I am only 35 minutes into the podcast so far and everything that has been said is right on the mark with what is happening, how I am treated, and how out marriage is treated. Can’t wait to finish listening to it. Now, the question is do I have my wife listen as well?

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    • April 6, 2017 at 7:19 pm
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      Aw. Good question..

      That is a question you will have to answer.. I don’t know your exact situation..

      Have you looked into the Save My Marriage Course?? It can help you along this journey…

      Please call us if you have any questions!!!! 615-472-1161 We are here to help!

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  • April 19, 2017 at 2:01 pm
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    I have a question on limerence.

    What difference is this to actually falling in love? Surely at the beginning of my relationship with my wife we were both in limerence with each other and we have been together now for 12 years, we were both in a stable relationship when we fell for each other. She is now in an affair with a co-worker, after listening to the podcast you say it always ends especially if there are boundaries such as marriage but I just don’t see this.
    The hardest thing for me to understand is aren’t all people who have extramarital affairs in limerence with the AP!!
    What’s the difference between an affair and being in limerence…

    Confused

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  • March 4, 2018 at 4:38 am
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    My husband left me 2 months ago, it was very sudden. Went cold on me for 3 weeks at Christmas time. I kept asking if everything was okay and he just kept saying he was fine just tired from work. At his work Xmas party I noticed the one girl atchis work constantly looking at him and he was very weird the whole time (he went cold a week before the party said he hated all the people he worked with and didn’t want to go). So finally one night I asked him what’s going on and he said he’s done and wants a divorce. I asked if there was someone else numerous times and specifically this girl and he told me no. Now a month after I left the house he told me he wants something legal signed ASAP because he’s ready to date. I asked if he had someone in mind and he told me it was her :(.
    He said he wants to ask her out but they haven’t hung out. I had found a receipt at the house for a Valentine’s Day card that he purchased for her, when I asked him about that it turned into they had hung out one time. On Valentine’s Day and he bought her a card. I would say that seems strange if something wasn’t going on before. I don’t beileve physical but definatel emotional although by how it’s probably physical. He has been so mean and cruel to me and has said some awful things. I’m wondering if this could be limerence. Everything you’ve said for the most part he’s doing. He has made me the villain and rewritten our past as all bad. He claims that his “friend” was our biggest supporter and said she was always telling him things will get better. So that also proves to me at least emotionally this has been going on for a while. He was talking to her about our marriage and not me.
    My question is, if he’s not admitting love and making it seem like they are just getting to know each other (meanwhile he has also said she has been his friend for 5 years at work, he used to always talk badly about her but at some point within I’d say the last year something shifted.) if i sent him this podcast or information on limerence would that make things worse and push him more in her direction? He’s adimit that he wants a divorce, we just bought a house in July that we literally put everything we had into, it’s in the country and was on the market for a year before we bought it and the previous owners had to keep dropping the price, the house alone is going to financially ruin us if we swell but neither of us can afford it on our own. We have a 3 year old daughter that this is already affecting negatively on. I’m so scare for the future, I’ve been trying to be calm and be his safe place but now that I have confirmation that there is someone else it all gone down the tube. He’s so mad at me already, blames me for anything and everything so would this really cause that much more damage? This all really sounds like what is happening but again, he’s only admitted to hanging out with her once and that he’s getting to know her. It was all very hostile when he told me though so I feel it in my heart that there is more to this story. 🙁
    I know you can’t tell me what to do but any guidance would be appreciated. I love this man with all my heart.

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    • March 6, 2018 at 6:39 pm
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      Please call us at 615-472-1161 so we can help!

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