When we at first called it No Contact, as a way of getting your spouse back, we didn’t anticipate how people would hear those words over the other things we said about the principle. Allow me to explain:
She didn’t hesitate a moment. Yes, she wanted to save her marriage. She and her husband were 40ish, married about twenty years, with a couple of children. One evening he told her he was in love with his assistant, that he already had a lawyer, and suggested she procure one for herself.