Marriage Helper, INC.
4690 Columbia Pike
Thompsons Station, TN 37179
Phone: 866-903-0990 or (615) 472-1161

TROUBLED MARRIAGES

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PRIVATE CONSULTATION
Dr. Joe Beam is available for private consultations for those who would like individualized help. Dr. Beam’s availability is limited and appointments are on a first come, first serve basis. Sessions are available through phone, skype, or in person. For more information on prices and scheduling, contact the Marriage Helper Team at info@marriagehelper.com.

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25 thoughts on “Contact

  • February 19, 2016 at 5:52 pm
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    Hi. I was in the private support group on Facebook and now I can’t access it. I found that Group extremely helpful. Is the group still active or have I been deleted from the group accidentally? Please let me know.

    Thanks so much.

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  • September 7, 2016 at 4:06 pm
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    I tried to join but it says pending.

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  • September 21, 2016 at 7:58 am
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    My husband and I attended the workshop in October of 2015. I am still standing, but we have not made much progress. I’d like to know if the 10 week online course would benefit me, or if I have already learned much of the info that would be covered? Also wondering if there is any price break on the course if you’ve attended a workshop. I stopped receiving the emails after we attended too – could I be added back on the email list please? Thank you.

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  • September 28, 2016 at 7:07 am
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    Hi,
    My husband of 8 years recently planned a weekend trip to VA apparently to check some real estate for investments ( although I am not sure he has the money at the moment to invest, but he said his friend does and since they were both going, he will go for experience and invest next year.) Saturday evening he packed a small backpack and his friend picked him up. He had told me he would call me when he reaches the hotel in Maryland where he was to stay overnight, but he didn’t. He texted me instead after 1:00 AM to reply to my message instead of calling. When I asked him where he was, he stopped replying back. The next day he called me around 10:30 am and briefly told me he was going to check out some open houses 12:00 onward. He came back home in NJ around 8:00 PM Sunday and went out right away to get milk from the store nearby. He was acting a bit nicer than usual so I checked his bag and found a bunch of condoms. I asked him when he came back and he said they were there from before ( I had checked the bag a week ago and they were not there I clearly remembered but he kept saying I might not have looked properly. The next evening I found out he had searched for “symptoms of HIV infection” on the internet. I asked him again, he said he must have clicked it by accident as these things pop ip on porn sites that he watches ( i am sure of the fact that he typed and not clicked on a link) . A couple days later I checked our mobile call logs from the bill, and it clearly showed he had spent the night in NJ, less than an jour away from home while all this time he told me he was staying in Maryland. When I asked him about that, he said he and his friend were drunk and had decided to make a stop there instead.

    After all this, he is much nicer to me than he used to be before. He is coming to reconcile after every argument, he has had sex with me more often in the past one month more than perhaps in last six months put together.

    I am crying within my heart. My spirit is shaken and I dont know what to do. Please help me on how to find out the complete truth, I am sleepless and distraught every day but still spinning on the wheel of the daily routine.

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  • December 23, 2016 at 8:36 pm
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    I cannot log into the members area and access the 10 week course right now. It is saying that my email address does not exist. I have been on the course and completed it once and would like to go back over information. Thank you for your help.

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    • December 27, 2016 at 4:37 pm
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      Hi Kathy-

      Can you email me at audra.weeks@marriagehelper.com?

      I just spoke to you on the phone! I want to make sure you are able to access the course now.

      Blessings,

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  • February 10, 2017 at 12:09 am
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    I would like to subscribe to your mails

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  • April 27, 2017 at 7:40 pm
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    Am I able to contact anyone by email for advice on my situation?

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  • June 14, 2017 at 5:32 pm
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    Hi,
    We were married for 23 years. Two years ago our then 14 year old daughter discovered that my wife was having an affair with her boss who runs the acting/dance studio that two of our three children were attending. My wife professes to be in love with this man, and says she fell out of love with me 5 years ago due to my behavior. This was a huge wake up call for me and I cleaned up my act immediately. Too late according to her. She pursued and got a divorce about a year ago. I have the children. She is still with this man, and I must admit I had hoped the limerance would have ended by now. I still love her, and believe in our family, so I continue to improve myself, stay on the straight and narrow, and keep standing. Do you think there is any hope for our family? It’s been over two years that I know of, and her and him seem to continue to be going strong.

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  • July 11, 2017 at 7:10 pm
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    Having difficulty getting access to my purchase of Better Relationship. Why can’t I access through dashboard. Didn’t get email helping on how to access. Also didn’t get response back from info

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  • August 29, 2017 at 8:12 pm
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    Could you post to facebook the article on what to do when the affair ends.

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  • September 25, 2017 at 5:02 am
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    My husband and I attended an intensive residential Christian marriage counseling program that boasts a high (85%+) success rate in putting “last resort couples” back together. It was a well-organized program, but sadly, it didn’t work for us; unbeknownst to me, he was already six months into yet another extramarital affair so he had no intention of reconciling. Shortly after coming home, he filed for divorce and our 41-year relationship was soon over. He’s now marrying his most recent affair partner, so it’s obvious he’s moved way beyond me. Only God knows what’s in our future.

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  • November 22, 2017 at 6:11 pm
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    Is the facebook group page still active? I applied to join the group but have not heard anything yet. I have been listening to all the podcasts and reading all articles online. Desperate to put my marriage back together. My husband of 26 years decided, 7 weeks ago after returning from a great weekend vacation, that he didn’t want to be married to me anymore and doesn’t love me. I am in complete shock!!! Please let me know if I the facebook group is still active. Thank you!

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  • February 27, 2018 at 9:33 pm
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    Good afternoon Joe Beam!

    I just read your “Consequences of Adultery” article. Thanks for your website.. it is a little too late for me…My wife is divorcing me after having unrepentant adultery. Unfortunately, there is no way to reconcile the marriage through your program. It would take 2 to do that. Anyways thanks for that article you wrote about Adultery in 2011.

    I have one question for you if you don’t mind answering it… regarding that article… After David’s Adultery, Murder etc.., he did not get punished per se. Everyone else did.. his son, the baby, Bathsheba, Uriah, the other son and daughter all suffered due to his sin but not his own. God restored him to his kingdom, wrote fabulous books and had more children. The only thing that he suffered was his (emotions). His sins had caused other people’s death and destruction, but not his own. On the other hand, we wouldn’t have those Psalms written by David if he didn’t commit adultery. I find this trouble some if we apply it today.

    In the Bible, there are really no direct consequences for Adultery in the NT, it does not mention it at all… but just forgiveness. The consequences of the Adultery sin is not dealt by God in the here and now…. but rather after death (therefore it is treated like any other sin… small or great). Therefore, there is no justice for adultery in this lifetime… if my understanding serves me well.

    Why does God allow the adulterer success? and allows the punishment for the innocent ?

    Thanks again for your help!

    In Christ,
    Rob

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    • March 6, 2018 at 6:40 pm
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      Please call us at 615-472-1161 so we can help!

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  • December 1, 2018 at 8:39 am
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    Hello Marriage Helpers Team, love the videos on you tube. Its as if you’re a fly on my wall, thats how spot on you describe situations. I would like guidance but Im in Greece…..what can I do??

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    • December 5, 2018 at 7:41 pm
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      Hi, Vakina. We offer coaching internationally. Call us at 866-903-0990 or email us at info@marriagehelper.com so we can get you connected with one of our client representatives.

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  • December 22, 2018 at 12:48 am
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    Hello, my name is Amber. I’m sort of at a crossroads right now. My husband and I have been married a year and together for 2. Almost the whole year we spent long distance because we are both serving in the military and he was finishing up his tour in Hawaii (where we met) and I was in Montana. During that time of separation I had an emotional affair with somebody here in Montana. I was very lonely at the time and I just wanted somebody around, even though my husband was constantly trying to reach out to me. (I know I feel awful). Well long story short on one of my vacations to visit my husband in Hawaii I had secretly invited the man I had an affair with along with friends knowing my husband would be gone on a TDY. My friends all fell through except that man. Well my husband came home early and caught me and this other man in his apartment. No I did not sleep with this man I slept in my husband’s bed while the other man slept on the couch. The other man knew there was something off with me cuz I stopped speaking of “us”. Anyways my husband of course was upset. He made me choose between him or the other man and of course I chose my husband and the other man was kicked out. We did not have much time together cuz I had to fly out the next day. That was May of this year. Fast forward my husband finally came to me in Montana. Our relatipnship was very rocky at the time and well there was a lot that happened. I had a drinking problem and I would ignore him when he would make me mad. Sometimes it would last weeks I believe I was emotionally abusive towards him most of our relationship and always drunk. I was dealing with my own emotonal traumas I had never healed from and he suffered. I attempted suicide this past labor day because I let my sadness get the best of me. He stayed by my side but not long after we were fighting again. In the midst of this I found out I was pregnant. It is both of ours first child. He was happy but of course the fighting continued. Due to me being so emotionally unstable. Ultimately he left me. I was devasted. We are now both living in separate apartments and we rarely speak. I am currently 4 1/2 months pregnant, on meds and in therapy. Of course I do not drink anymore. I feel like I am in a much better place but he still hates me for everything which I get. I just want my husband back to be a family. On the occasions he does see me he will not touch or hug me or anything except for a week and a half ago when I was very sick. He held me and took care of me and talked about the baby. Than past weekend he came over again and was cold and told me I was an awful person and did not love me anymore. It hurt. I couldn’t get out of bed for 2 days. We both argued over texts and then I told him goodbye and blocked him from contacting me. My question is what can I do? I am still very much in love with him and would want nothing more than to be a family. I feel like my actions were mostly clouded by alcohol and emotional trauma. Now I’m not saying it was justififed but I am a much different person and I’m starting to heal from the past. I don’t want to get a divorce but at this point that’s all he wants. Where do I go from here? I’ve already reached out called and emailed already just waiting for a response.

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  • March 5, 2019 at 10:49 pm
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    I’ve been married before years ago for 9 yrs. He left me for his secretary. I was heartbroken and nothing I did could pull him away from her. He married and they were divorced w/in 5 yrs. but still he found another woman rather than come back to me. I felt like his pride stood in the way. They have been married now around 24 yrs. I married a 2nd time to a wonderful man and have been married 22 yrs. A yr and a half ago my 1st husband contacted me and asked for forgiveness; something I thought I would never hear. I have always loved him. We continued to text and an affair began as he said he’d really always loved me but had hated himself. It has been 18 months full of elation as well as disappointments. I realize I am trying to gain what I lost and am trying to prove to him that I am what he really always wanted. A lot of love is expressed but it’s mostly about sex and me probably just proving to him that “I still got it” and “what a mistake he made”. We text everyday back and forth for hours on end but meet only occasionally. My spouse has no suspicions but he has been caught twice w/her finding texts in his phone and even had a PI follow us. Still, she did not leave him or kick him out. Neither of us ever had children and neither of us have parents anymore. We each have one sibling. The guilt is minimal for me I guess because of the initial commitment I made to him in 1976. Have u ever run into this situation? Should I have never remarried?

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    • March 8, 2019 at 8:20 pm
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      Hi, Connie. Thank you for sharing your story. Please call us at 866-903-0990 so we can help.

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