Marriage Helper 911 Workshop

This turnaround weekend is proven to saves marriages and help couples grow deeper in intimacy and passion together.

Our 3-day Marriage Helper 911 Workshop gives you the tools needed to save your marriage and fall back in love with your spouse. This intensive workshop boasts a 75% success rate of saving marriages, even if your spouse comes reluctantly or does not want to. In addition, 99% of participants recommend the program to others, regardless of the outcome of their marriage. You will learn about yourself, your spouse, your marriage, and how to have healthier and stronger relationships in the future. We provide hands-on help to rescue your relationship no matter how bad it is right now! This is the emergency room for marriages in trouble!

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The Save My Marriage Course

An online course for someone who wants to save their marriage but their spouse wants out.

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Marriage Help Bootcamp

A 3-part video toolkit to teach you how to approach your spouse about agreeing to seek marriage help with you.

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How To Become More Attractive Bootcamp

A 2-part video toolkit to teach you the four areas that make up your attractiveness scale, a 30 day Training Log to hold you accountable & a quiz to help identify where you need to start.

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The Affair Toolkit Video Series

Online Video Series for marriages affected by an affair or suspecting their spouse of an affair.

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Decision Point

Online Video Series for someone who has been or are currently in an emotional or physical affair.

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Questions? Contact us!

If you have questions about any or our products or want to know which one is best for you, don’t hesitate to ask.

By Phone: 866-903-0990
Monday through Friday from 8 am to 5 pm Central Time



24 thoughts on “Marriage Help

  • February 17, 2016 at 11:35 pm
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    We are a ministry that works with Pastoral Couples, Missionaries and Ministry Leaders called Shepherds Heart Ministry. We are located in Colorado with retreat centers in Colorado, Michigan, Israel, Canada and Mexico. We do 5 day intensives for those in Full-time ministry. We are starting our 13th year of ministry. We often get calls from Married couples and we cannot take them into our program (because our Vision is Pastoral couples). I just had another call today from a young lady that wanted marriage counseling.
    We would like to refer couples to your program, but first would love to talk to a representative so we can get a little more information about your process and program.
    Thank you for your hearts for hurting couples, and saving marriages.

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    • February 22, 2016 at 6:30 pm
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      Hi, Lorrie–

      Please give us a call at (615) 472- 1161. We would love to help!

      Thank you!

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    • June 19, 2018 at 1:27 am
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      Please help me!!! I’m in Colorado and I’m fixing to lose my husband!!!

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      • August 27, 2018 at 8:18 pm
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        Hi, Angell. Please give us a call at 866-903-0990 so we can help!

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  • August 11, 2016 at 5:33 am
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    We have registered for the Sept 16-18 workshop. It will be a powerful 3 day workshop, I’m sure! I have two Q’s:
    (1) What materials should we read prior to the workshop?
    (2) Can you provide us a list of inexpensive hotels located not too far from the training site?

    Thank you!

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    • August 12, 2016 at 5:03 pm
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      Good afternoon!

      We have a PDF that we give you with a list of hotels.

      I will get that over to you via email ASAP!

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  • October 7, 2016 at 5:52 pm
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    Hi
    Unfortunately we can not attend these workshops, I live in Canada. Plus my wife would not go anyway, she is the one that had the affair.
    Basically I have been using the affairs toolkit for the standing spouse. I finally convinced her to start the opposite toolkit for her.

    But I feel very much alone and my back up against the wall.

    Her ex lover, our friend, thinks we can all just go back to being friends again.
    I tried to explain to him, I forgave him and her, but could not forget what happened between them. He started to beg for us to remain his friend. What do I do about her ex lover, my soon to be ex friend?

    Please help. Any advice would be appreciated.

    Walt

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  • November 5, 2016 at 12:20 pm
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    I have contacted you several times through that document to fill out and via phone no response I’m few days now. I need a workshop in Tennessee the 3 day workshop. Please help

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    • November 7, 2016 at 4:48 pm
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      Hi Stephanie-

      I am so sorry you haven’t heard from us!

      Can you please email me your phone number & I will have someone call you today?

      My email address is audra.weeks@marriagehelper.com

      Blessings,

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  • December 12, 2016 at 1:33 am
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    What if I am wanting to leave the spouse because of his emotionally destructive behaviors? It’s a toxic environment and my needs aren’t being met and he doesn’t want to do any work with counseling. He hasn’t had a change of heart. My heart is broken, tired of trying and tired of settling for his leftover time, he begrudgingly gives.

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  • March 20, 2017 at 10:08 pm
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    My husband had a stroke 7 years ago…He had to stop working and is disabled…I have been taking care of him all this time…we come to a point where we must sell our house and seek other alternatives…I saw an attorney who recommends a “paper divorce” so that our assets will be saved, while he will be placed in an Assisted Living residence and I will go to a senior/disabled subsidized apt…I’m a bit uncomfortable with the divorce, but knowing it is strictly for financial reasons seems to make it ok…what do you think?

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    • March 28, 2017 at 4:26 pm
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      Hi Maggie,

      This is only a decision that you can make. We aren’t lawyers… We focus on saving marriages. I am so sorry to hear you are going through this.

      We are praying for you.

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  • August 22, 2017 at 2:06 am
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    My wife and I have been married for 15 years, but we haven’t had a sexual relationship for the last 8 years. I love her very much and she always says she loves me too. We haven’t even made out or more that just a peck on the lips before we go to bed. Because of bad sleeping habits we sleep in separate rooms. I really feel like all were just close roommates. I am a disabled veteran so we get free counseling service, but she refuses to go. I don’t want to leave her or have an affair, but something has to give.

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    • October 5, 2017 at 3:26 pm
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      Hi! We are on the same boat with the sexual issues. There’s so much into why we came to this point. We have attended the workshop, my husband did go, I think it benefited me more, it allowed me to understand what happened to me in the relationship, showed me things I needed to work on myself more. We are trying to work it out by removing ourselves from our past relationship, not on paper. So far life at home seems to be more peaceful and we are able to talk to each other better. My husband is almost blind so in good conscience, I can’t and won’t leave him. We both don’t want a divorce but are tired of the disrespect for each other. I know the workshop helped me, time will tell what will happen to us. But now, I am really trying to deal with my past and my issues and not keep sweeping it under the rug. After 43 yrs, it’s about time I did. I hope you find your way. I have my Lord and Savior to hold me close, so even if it’s been hard for me, I know I am loved by my Father. God bless you both.

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  • May 26, 2018 at 8:25 pm
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    My husband complains that we don’t have enough sex. It’s probably 2-4 times a month. We fight on a weekly basis. He stops talking to me and sleeps on the couch for days. Then complains that we don’t have enough sex. I ask him if we can work on how we disagree, but he refuses. When he gets angry, he says mean, hurtful things and never apologizes. It’s so hard for me to give my body to someone who hurts me so badly. I always end up having sex, just to keep the peace. It’s never warm, loving sex. It’s only physical, we never even kiss. I tell him all the time that I want more intimacy and affection, and that it might help me be more sexual. He responds by bringing up past hook-ups from my college days and says he wishes he could get sex like those guys did, without having to do any work. That breaks me down completely. Sometimes, he’s very sweet and fun to be around, but if I am slow about sex, the beast is unleashed. That clouds any good thing he does. Should I just give him more sex and hope he’ll be nicer? I know sex equals for men, but it’s so hard when he hurts me like he does.

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  • November 11, 2018 at 10:21 pm
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    Do you have WhatsApp I need to call you from New Zealand? Appreciate it!

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    • November 12, 2018 at 8:09 pm
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      We do not have WhatsApp, but we offer coaching internationally. Call us at 866-903-0990 — we look forward to your call!

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  • November 25, 2018 at 7:29 am
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    I want to try to save our marriage but one day out of the blue she started acting cold she claims shes angry at me which I did alot of messups. She said her anger isnt going away but once her anger goes away then she has to sit and think of our marriage and to be honest she has been secretive with me and she is not forgiving as I thought she would. Even if i owned up to my mistakes she doesn’t budge not a i love you not holding hands not even allowing me to kiss her this was going on for month and half. She said somewhere deep inside she still in love with me but her anger makes her hate me. Now I dont know anymore what to do I fear her anger will tell her to do things to hurt our marriage i was busy always working not being there for her i feel like giving her options maybe we should separate but that might put a dent aswell i am confused i did mess up yes i owned up to my mistakes but I think my marriage is sunk. Quicker than titanic.

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  • November 28, 2018 at 10:56 pm
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    Hello my best friend of 21 years had an affair with a woman that lasted 3 years and was extremely abusive and toxic. I offered him a safe place from the abuse and he has been here for 8 months. It has turned romantic and there has been a lot of verbal expression that he loves me and always has but is so jealous of this other woman that he doesn’t want anyone else to have her. Things were going well for us several times and then he gets triggered,usually its from her telling him about other men that she is seeing. He is so destructive when he is in contact with her. He increases his alcohol consumption, lies to friends and family and even will not see his kids or not show concern for his kids just to hang out with her. He has spent his savings to hangout with her on her days off. She contacts me and berates me and tells me he is using me and that he doesn’t love me. It has been a hard way to live but I try to remain classy and not engage in mudslinging. She calls me all kinds of racially slurred namesand and believes that I “stole” he life. When he gets caught he is extremely apologetic and will always say he needs help, he knows thay she is toxic and that he loves me. It’s sad watching these two operate as if they are addicted to one another. Their relationship has caused not only physical scars on him but so much hurt to those that love them. I want to operate from compassion and love because I realize that this is a love addiction. But I feel like I am not good enough as he continues to to destroy our love for a woman he knows is not dangerous for him. I have read their text messages and they seriously the sickest thing I have ever read in my life. A lot about me being the reason why they can’t be together and her demanding that he removes me from his life. He agrees under pressure but then tells me and his family that he cant imagine his life without me. He tries hard to not connect with me but when he does it’s simply breathtaking. I often feel like he hates that he loves me and wishes that perhaps my personality and the way I care for him and his kids were her. He also talks to family friends about me to the point that when I meet people they know a lot about me. Would tell me he talks about you so much and it’s nice to finally meet me. I believe I have enabled some of the behaviors as I have this innate ability to see people where they are at. He takes advantage this level of maturity and trust. Even when i find out he is seeing her again, if he leaves the house or talks on phone i honestly tryand give him a clean slate. They met at work and now work buildings next to each other. This seems to be the trigger. He told me that it’s just good old fashion jealously and he knows his thoughts are not normal. I want to stop losing myself in worry and just be me. I am now trying to piecethings together and its driving me nuts. I want to be all he needs and I want him to choose me once and for all. Its like everytime we get close he panics and reaches for her to only realize itswrong. They both manipulate each other and in my heart they both know that this is wrong and they are not good for one another. Yet they can’t stand to see each other with someone else. Any advise or help will be appreciated.

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    • December 12, 2018 at 3:55 pm
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      Hi, please call us at 866-903-0990 so we can help.

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  • February 8, 2019 at 9:04 pm
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    My husband of 34 yrs took off with a younger 4 years ago and before that he took off with another younger woman for 2 year. he did and said all the things Joe said he did to his wife. My husband is 57 now and the other woman is 29 now I think. He still pays the house payment of the house I live in and some of the other bills here. I don’t understand it. He said he loved me but he wasn’t in love with me . He’s told me to move because he has. If he doesn’t love me or want to be with me then why is he paying the house payment of the house I’m living in and a few of the other bills. If I didn’t want to be with someone I sure wouldn’t pay the house payment or bills for them. The other day I told him I didn’t want to do this anymore because I’m tired and I think want a divorce. He got half way pissed and upset over me getting to the point I’m considering a divorce..I don’t get any of this.. What can I do to fix this marriage.

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    • February 15, 2019 at 7:53 pm
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      Hi, please call us at 866-903-0990 so we can help!

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