Marriage Compatibility Test


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Instructions:

Please answer our marriage compatibility test questions as honestly as possible, based on what you truly feel is characteristic of your relationship right now. Do not answer how you think it should be but how it actually is and feels.

Throughout the compatibility test, there are blanks for you to mentally insert the name of your spouse. Just say his/her name in your head whenever you come across a black.

Rate the following questions on the compatibility test using a scale of 1 to 9. One means not at all. Five means moderately. Nine means very much.

Note: All information submitted on this page is considered confidential, will be kept private and never sold or given to any third party vendors.

Used by permission of Dr. Robert Sternberg, Yale University.

Spouse’s First Name:

1. I share deeply personal information about myself with _______.
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2. I find myself thinking about _______ during the day.
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3. Because of my commitment to _______, I would not let others come between us.
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4. I receive considerable emotional support from _______.
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5. My relationship with _______ is very romantic.
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6. I expect my love for _______ to last for the rest of my life.
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7. I communicate well with _______.
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8. I cannot imagine another person making me as happy as _______ does.
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9. I will always feel a strong responsibility for _______.
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10. I feel that I can really trust _______.
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11. My relationship with _______ is very passionate.
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12. I plan to continue my relationship with _______.
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13. I feel that _______ really understands me.
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14. I would rather be with _______ than anyone else.
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15. I have confidence in the stability of my relationship with _______.
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Note: All information submitted on this marriage compatibility test is considered personal and confidential, will be kept private and will never be sold to any third party vendors or stored in any way.

Test used by permission of Dr. Robert Sternberg, Yale University.